Today is one of those grey, miserably wet days that makes me want to curl up into a cashmere-covered ball and watch old black and white movies all day. The problem, of course, is that I live in Vancouver, where it rains eight months out of the year. If I lived my life according to the weather report (which currently calls for seven straight days of rain), I would become a hermit crab and spend my weekends covered in cheeto crumbs.
Winter is finally winding down, which means those of us not living in California or Florida or the southern hemisphere just have to push through a couple more months of rain, slush and freak snowstorms. This is the hard part, where we can see the bright light at the end of the tunnel but the tunnel just seems so freaking long.
If, like me, you find yourself facing one too many rainy days, here are a few ideas to get you out of your snuggie and away from those Downton Abbey reruns. Put those (delicious) cheetos down. Come out and play.
Channel Your Inner Van Gogh

I love a man in a smock.
I’m no Matisse, but I enjoy the occasional foray into the painterly life. There’s an awesome painting/wine bar in Vancouver called Raw Canvas. I forget all about it in the summer, but come winter, a few
Attend (Or Host) a Secret Supper

I intend to devote an entire post to Secret Supper Clubs at some point–not only is it one of my favorite pastimes but it’s so interesting and fun and I want more people to get in on it. Secret Supper Clubs are popping up everywhere from San Francisco to New York to Austin to Paris. The one my friends and I regularly attend is called Swallowtail, and it’s run by the very cool Chef Robin. Every month or so, we receive an email outlining a fun theme along with the cost. We only find out the secret location the week before and the menu remains a secret right up until our arrival. We’ve attended dinners with a variety of cool themes: Speakeasy, Tiki, Alice in Wonderland, Where the Wild Things Are, Church of the Senses. Each one is unique and super yummy.
Hopefully you can find an underground or “secret” dinner club in your area. And if not, why not create your own? Come up with a theme, give your guests a few (but not too many) details and then get creative with the menu. For the Alice in Wonderland Theme, they served soup in glass beakers with tags that read “Drink Me,” hors d’oeuvres on broken china and a “cut your own” salad bar garden.
Play!

Left Hand Green, Right hand jazz.
We host a monthly(ish) game night at our place where we play games ranging from Cranium to Pictionary to Cards Against Humanity. I make fun snacks, keep the wine flowing and it usually gets LOUD. It’s so much fun to watch people come out of their shells when faced with the ridiculous task of running around the room yelling “Rawhide” for a full minute or drawing a picture titled “E.T. Saves Christmas” (we can thank the game Quelf for those two gems). On one recent game night, we pulled out the classic game of Twister. The mat was much smaller than any of us remembered and we were all rolling on the floor laughing within minutes. It was the ultimate pick-me-up.
Take Over The Art/Science/History Museum

Vancouver museums host several night-time, adults only events throughout the year. There’s Science World After Dark, Fuse at The Art Gallery, and Night at the Aquarium to name a few. Most major cities have similar fun-times happening in their museums. It’s so cool to have free reign of what is usually a child-filled space. Suddenly, it’s the adults’ turn to race up the pulley system at the Science Museum and stare in awe at the Beluga whale, all while rocking out to an awesome band or watching some neat performance art. A quick google search will let you know what’s happening in your town.
Get Your Groupon On

Shake, shake, shake, Senora.
Winter is the perfect time to buy (and actually use) Groupons. Don’t you ever look at those emails advertising macaron-making, pottery painting and bartending classes and think, “Hmm, maybe that would actually be fun…but when am I ever going to get around to it?” How about on a wet, miserable Tuesday night? You could stay inside flipping through your DVR, or you could learn to make awesome cocktails.
One rainy weeknight a few months ago, four friends and I took a bartending course where we learned to combine fruits, herbs and the strong stuff into delectable cocktails. Okay, delectable may be a strong word. My bartending partner and I decided to include a whole chilli pepper in our concoction, which promptly burned the mouths off of all of our classmates. But hey, way more exciting than watching “Top Chef”, right?
Go On An Adventure

Wouldn’t a dog make this picture so much more adorable?
One thing I’ve learned from living in a rainy climate: you will not melt. I’ve had some really interesting (uncrowded) walks in the rain. Most people are bundled up inside, so the city becomes your playground. What good are rainboots if you don’t use them to splash through a giant puddle now and then? Pick a new neighborhood or trail and go on a rainy day adventure!
What are some of your favorite rainy day activities? Do you prefer to stay in or do you brave the weather and seek out new adventures?
Tagged: art, Culture, Fun Activities, Game Night, Rainy Day List, Secret Supper Clubs, vancouver, winter

Thanks for the link! Love this list. Just a few more months of rainy days to plug through…
I love this post..great approach to winter. I have *almost* bought a groupon for bartending classes on more than one occasion – I think maybe next time I see one pop up, I may just go for it! (and see if I can convince a few of the girls to go with!) The secret supper club sounds fantastic…thanks for the great ideas Rian!
Rainy days are often the best for exploring. It adds a mystery to the world.
Sure does, Laura ;)
When I was living in Washington, I stayed in when it rained. But in Arizona, I would go out and dance and run around in the monsoons, and I wasn’t the only one. Okay, so maybe it’s not an actual “activity”, but it was still fun. My boss even let me take a break from work once to run around the parking lot during a storm.
Rainstorms definitely create a more playful atomosphere. Pacific Northwest rain isn’t much to get excited about, since it’s usually a constant light drizzle. I love (and miss) thunderstorms. They’re so fun!
I love walking in the rain as well as getting out of the rain to play or adventure indoors. Loving your post – thanks for sharing – great ideas – great captures:) Happy Friday!
Great suggestions, Riane. Over in Victoria this morning I was accused by a very cheery colleague of being a “Poopy Pants” for complaining about the rain. And really, he was right. It was still relatively warm out, and by the afternoon, the sun was shining! But I’m signing up for something “Groupony” to get me through until March….
You must have had the same strange weather day in Victoria that we had in Vancouver–a miserable, grey morning and then a fantastic, sunny late afternoon. The weather here is so unpredictable! That’s why we all flock outside the moment the sun shines–who knows how long it’s going to last? ;) Hang in there, we’re in the home stretch…
If you are to curl up, then you could do worse than watch “singing in the Rain” – works every time for me.
Thanks for the suggestion, Bill!
I used to not mind getting in the rain much at all. However, I am too slow now and if it rains I get soaked just walking to the car. However, I love to listen to it.
Secret supper sounds fun. I might have to try that one.
Scott
The sound of rain is the best. I never tire of it.
Oh yes, the sound of it is wonderful. I enjoy sleeping to it and even waking to it.
Scott
Great tips, Rian, and definitely applicable to other cities! You’ve reminded me to look into museums after dark — Chicago definitely has a few programs that I have heard co-workers talk about.
Chicago has all kinds of cool stuff going on–I went to a few late night museum events and performances when I lived there. But I never made it to Adler After Dark, which looks really fun.
I love this! Perfect timing too as husband and I are currently on the move to Seattle…. Thanks for the ideas!
We’ll almost be neighbours :) Pac-northwest climate is big adjustment at first, but you do get used to it. And all of that rain makes you savour every moment of the glorious summer. Good luck with your move!
I can totally relate to the rainy days, wanting to just wrap myself in a cashmere infinity and burrow deep,Cheetos included, however, I can get cabin fever. So can my daughter :) We like to paint pottery, go bowling, go to the Children’s Theater and wander bookstores/libraries reading what grabs our attention. I’m definitely looking into Secret Suppers! I just bought a Float On Groupon, where you float in a pool for 90 minutes for an “external stimulus free ” experience. It’ll be interesting to see how that one turns out. Hang in there with the 7 day stretch!
From your comments and blog posts, it sounds like you’re always up to something fun, Kristy. Kids provide such a great excuse to play. Those of us who aren’t parents could take a cue from the kiddos when it comes to free time.
While it’s true that having a child helps, it’s truthfully the child in us recognizing the same and guiding the adventures; that unquenchable thirst to see, hear, do and seek all that is around us in this life we each live.
I’ve lived in Vancouver for 2 years and have yet to seen a brochure as tempting; sadly I had to rush out at 7:30am in the rain for my bus and then spent the rest of the day cooped up at a dance competition. It was no snuggles and cheetos, and not even some van gogh inspiration – all the graffiti logos were taken care of already.
A dance competition sounds fun! Luckily, all that rain usually makes us Vancouverites feel less guilty about having to stay inside for this or that. But come summer, it’s almost unbearable to be trapped indoors, don’t you think?
Oh goodness, I’m not sure if it had been the past summer or the previous one, the weather had me worse off than rainy days.. there’s something about being cold – at least you can warm up. There’s no such thing as really cooling down on a humid hot day @@ But yes, the rain this morning definitely made I want to snuggle in bed this morning when I woke up at 6:30am and a gust of chill wind just somehow found the small sliver of window I had left open..
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Thanks for sharing :)
I live in Vancouver and all that stuff sounds great. Thanks for the tips.
No prob, hope you found something fun to try out.
Great ideas! Big, warm indoor pools are fun in the winter as well as climbing walls, bowling alleys and roller skating… if you want and need the exercise and just don’t feel like running in the rain.
A warm indoor pool–that sounds heavenly. I’ve been hoping to find a roller rink somewhere nearby, it seems like they’ve mostly closed up shop. But that would be so fun, and nostalgic!
These ideas are awesome! I’ve tried looking for secret supper clubs in Chicago, but haven’t found any. That being said I know there are many of the other things on your list and I always forget them in winter, favoring my couch and episodes of West Wing. Definitely going to take advantage.
By the way, I miss you planning my weekends :(
Hey Denise,
Here are a couple of articles about secret suppers in Chicago:
http://cheekychicago.com/decoding-the-mysterious-underground-supper-club
http://stevedolinsky.com/?p=7747
Not sure how active any of them are, but it may be worth a look. Maybe we can check one out next time I’m in town!
And here’s an awesome, comprehensive looking list of secret/underground suppers around the world, by city, for anyone who’s interested:
http://www.saltshaker.net/underground-dining-scene
The phrase “adults-only night” at museums always cracks me up – it makes the whole concept sound so X-Rated! I’ve been to several and they’re always more fun than going in the daytime.
A good all-weather activity for me is Book Club. The Philly-based one I’m still technically attached to has outdoor meetings in the local park during the summer months, but on cold & rubbish days we hang out in restaurants or bars. It’s more cultured than watching TV in the evening…yet still manages to involve food and alcohol. :)
Keep on holding out for that sunshine!
A book club–that’s something I’ve been wanting to try for a while. Is your club genre-specifoc or more generalized? There are lots of “meetups” in Vancouver (which is another thing I should have included) but none of the book club meetups have struck my fancy–too far away or focused on genres I’m not interested in. Maybe I’ll just have to start my own. Thanks for the suggestion, Claire!
The one I claim to belong to is the a general one: it’s based on Meetup, members make suggestions for books each month and then a poll is conducted to work out what we’ll be reading. We’ve done everything from Devil In The White City through To Kill A Mockingbird and more recent prize-winners.
Book clubs are The Thing, I encourage setting one up. :)
If I don’t curl up with an old film like “Pat and Mike”, “The Ghost and Mrs. Muir” or “The Egg and I”, I’ll read. Going to the movies for the popcorn is fun but rain is rare here in CO. We usually stand around and marvel at it…and lament our lack of rain gear.
I haven’t seen any of those movies, Marsella. But now I’m intrigued! Especially by the “The Egg and I.” Whatever can that be about? ;)
Love the idea of a games night! I am totally stealing this one for winter in Cape Town… while our summers are long and gorgeous, winters are wet and can drag on a bit, and there’s already a change in the air! A bunch of tipsy adults stumbling around on a Twister mat can ONLY lift the spirits…thanks :-)
I’ve never been to Cape Town in the winter but I’ve heard it can be wet and chilly. Lucky ducks, just winding up a long and gorgeous summer! I hope it’s a mild winter, filled with many rowdy game nights :)
good question seeing as it has been raining here for a solid week and we’ve been flooded in for 4 days…board games, books, splashing gumboot walks, baking, eating and when very stir crazy – backyard cricket in the rain :).
Cricket in the rain, that sounds fun! My husband once tried to teach me cricket with apples from our (former) backyard. Can’t say I really got the hang of it! ;)
Fun ideas! I love the game night–we have a closet full of games and never have anyone over to play them with us. Maybe we’ll just have to start hosting them … perhaps get a real dining room table and a handful of kids’ movies for the young’uns …
We bought a long dining room table last year which has been great for playing games, but sometimes we just gather around in the living room. Any old space will do! I’d be right over for a game night if we were neighbors, Lynn!
OK, but you have to bring Cards Against Humanity. We’re still on the waiting list.
I’ll provide the wine :-)
Deal! :)
Fabulous suggestions! I love Groupon for the reason that you can try new things you never knew you’d love. Hope the rain doesn’t put too much of a damper on your winter, Rian! Though it sounds like you keep pretty busy regardless of the weather. :)
Thanks, Jessica–I’m pretty used to the rain by now (this is our 4th winter in Van). I don’t love the lack of sun, but I’ve adapted. Though I definitely wouldn’t mind you sending a bit of your California sun this way! :)
Consider it sent! We’re expecting 80 degree weather here starting Friday, but I will be enjoying the snow in Boston. Nothing like small bouts of winter. ;)
I live in Portland, Oregon, where it also rains a fair bit, as I’m sure you’ve heard. One of my favorite things to do is hike in the rain. No one else goes! All your friends reliably bail. Walking alone in the wilderness is quiet, meditative and so fragrant. A little gear to keep you dry on the inside, some warm soup in a thermos, and a short winter hike: the world is a fantastic wet wonderland.
I love your other suggestions also. It’s good to mix it up. A rowdy game night sounds perfect too.
Ahh, I love Portland. You live in such a great city. I’d be over at Powell’s or chowing down on food cart fare any rainy day. Your hikes sound lovely. I’ve never really gone on a proper rainy day “hike” but the hot soup and quiet mediation sound enticing.
Well, well, well, I didn’t know there were such fun activities that I’m missing out on by living in a small town :( tear tear. I am thinking I should host more game nights, we love board games and we have friends who love them too…So why haven’t I done this?! I like to go to the gym on a cold snowy day. It is less crowded because people are skiing. I will either do a “warm” yoga class, or soak in the hot tub. To top it off, I hit up the ‘ladies only’ sauna–it’s like the perfect recipe for inner sunshine!
Wow, this is so chock full ‘o goodness! This secret supper club is most intriguing. And the Twister picture kills me! Man, you do a lot of cool stuff. I need to step up my [Twister] game.
Also, if you ever need a dog for a picture, Uncle Jesse is willing. For a price. (One of those cocktails, maybe?)
I’ve found myself watching a LOT of movies this winter – at home and at a ‘dine in’ theater nearby, which is totally awesome. Big chairs and a full bar, I mean, menu!